There couldn’t be more differing opinions on the use of social media. Is it good? Bad? Unhealthy? A waste of time? Essential? Navigating the challenges when it comes to disciplining your children is no easy feat. Many parents are unsure of even letting their children on social media while they are still living at home. Here are a few things to consider as you navigate what is best for your family:
1. You are not alone! While the enemy wants to convince us that we are divided and isolated, I want to remind you of the power of a unified Church. Jesus can speak to you and share wisdom with you through other parents who have wrestled with the same questions you have. Invite others to pray with you and share wisdom as you discern what God is calling your family to do when it comes to social media.
2. Have honest conversations with your kids! There are elements of social media that won’t help your students pursue Christ wholeheartedly. If time limits, restrictions, or programs need to be set up for healthy boundaries, bring your kids into the “Why” of that decision. Resources like Protect Young Eyes or Covenant Eyes can be used to help you set up those boundaries with your child. Let them know your desire to help them pursue mental, emotional, and spiritual health by what they intake on a regular basis!
3. Equip your children to be a LIGHT on social media! I’ve personally been convicted to view my social media as a mission field. If most people in the world spend their time on their phones and on some form of social media, I want to be a light in their ‘world’.
Jesus says in Matthew 5:14-16,
14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”
If your children are spending time on social media, equip them to follow accounts that spread truth and love while also committing to do the same! You can exemplify this on your own social media accounts. Walk with them as they navigate who to follow and what to post. It is possible to use social media as a positive tool for God’s Kingdom while also setting healthy boundaries!
At the end of the day, the most important thing is that you are having open, intentional conversations with your children about social media. Being candid creates a safe space to share and allows for them to see your love for them!
