As parents, navigating cultural issues with our kids can feel overwhelming! Middle and high schoolers are constantly exposed to new ideas and challenges from social media trends to societal shifts. How can we, as Christian parents, engage them in meaningful conversations rooted in biblical truth?
Here are two key principles to help guide these discussions:
1. Start by Listening to Their Perspective
Whether it’s in response to something your kids tell you or you’re being proactive about something you’ve seen, before you jump into longwinded explanations or “expert” advice, make sure you listen. Ask your child about what they’ve heard, seen, or experienced, and be genuinely curious about their thoughts. Listening without interrupting helps you understand where they’re coming from and opens the door for them to share more openly in the future. It also shows them that you value their opinions and are a safe space for these difficult conversations.
For example, if your child brings up a trending issue on social media or a topic their friends are discussing, ask open-ended questions like, “How does this make you feel?” or “What are your thoughts on that?” By creating an environment where they feel heard, you can better understand their worldview and emotional response to cultural challenges.
2. Frame the Conversation with Biblical Truth
Once you’ve listened to your child’s perspective, it’s important to help them see how Scripture applies to the issues they’re facing. Culture may change, but God’s Word remains the same. Share verses you know or search the Scriptures with your child for verses that speak directly to the topic, and explain how the Bible gives wisdom for handling these situations. Encourage your children to think critically about cultural trends, guiding them to compare what they hear with what the Bible teaches.
You can use this moment as an opportunity to teach them that living out their faith sometimes means standing firm on biblical principles, even when they’re unpopular. Discuss how Jesus calls us to love others but also to be discerning about the values we embrace. By showing them how to evaluate culture through a biblical lens, you’re equipping them to navigate future challenges with faith and wisdom.
Cultural conversations with your children don’t have to be intimidating. By listening first and guiding them with biblical truth, you’ll not only strengthen your relationship with your child but also help them develop a strong, biblically-centered worldview that will carry them through life.
Kyle Wood
Director of Operations and Communication