In a world that often says, “You deserve more,” it can be hard to teach students to say, “Thank you.” Commercials tell your students they need the latest phone or gadget, social media praises luxury and excess, and even adults can fall into the trap of comparison. But as followers of Christ, we are called to live differently. Gratitude is not just good manners—it’s a spiritual posture that keeps our hearts humble, joyful, and close to God.
Here are a few simple ways to help your students cultivate thankful hearts as they grow in the Lord:
- Model Thankfulness
Students will notice what you do more than what you say. When you thank God out loud for small blessings—a cozy morning, a safe drive, a good meal, a healthy body—they learn that gratitude is a daily rhythm, not just a once-a-year idea.
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18
Invite them to be thankful in the moments where it’s easy, and the moments where it’s hard. To pause and think about where they’ve seen God’s goodness today and thank Him for it. Over time, they’ll begin to recognize God’s hand in everyday moments and acknowledge His presence in everything.
- Shift the Focus
When complaints start creeping in (and let’s be real, they do), help your students list what they already have. A “gratitude jar” or gratitude journal can turn hearts from wanting to worshiping.
“Every good and perfect gift is from above.” – James 1:17
When we are intentional about giving thanks for the things we have, it reminds us that He alone satisfies our hearts and every other good thing is simply a gift He has given to us.
- Serve Together
Serving others breaks the cycle of entitlement that we can all fall into. When we volunteer together—whether serving at a food pantry, looking for ways to serve their teachers, or helping a neighbor—serving opens your students’ eyes to both need and blessing.
“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” – Acts 20:35
Through service, students will experience joy not from getting, but from giving.
In a culture of ‘more,’ let’s help students know the joy of ‘enough.’ As you guide their hearts toward gratitude, let’s remind them—and ourselves—that all we have is grace upon grace.
Aubrie Kimbrough
Media and Mobilization Manager
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